So there’s this post on social media about a girl who thinks her boyfriend doesn’t need to buy her stuffs cause she has parents. Oh girl good for you.

In my opinion, having a boyfriend isn’t all necessary if it isn’t for marriage but if you decide that you want to play around before marriage!well First, define your relationship I mean to the point of asking if sex is going to be involved. Come on you guys are adults nothing to be shy about.

As a lady having a boyfriend doesn’t make him your meal ticket. But if you get some goodies why not he’s just appreciating you.

I remember when I was in the university, I did have my first boyfriend then but I wish I knew better, my dad would send money anytime I asked just so that one bobo won’t entice me with gifts and then am gone. I don’t mean gone gone like dead. I know this because I overheard him talking with my mom.

But I was fortunate to have a dad like mine. What about girls with the opposite of my dad or dads that didn’t have. Most of their girls are what we have today.

I also believe a man should take care of his girl without her asking. I mean you’re the one who will get all the credits. She doesn’t need to ask before you give.

I, mostly in all my relationships was too shy to ask sef. The time I asked, he used it against me at the long run.so subsequent relationships I rarely asked even up till marriage. My husband should thank his God😂. Must I add I do not take his things without permission am just like that and yes not even money from his purse.

Something is wrong with me shey🤣😢.

Finally what am just trying to say is that catering for your girl friend’s needs is not compulsory but necessary. Just don’t be stingy. No one likes that.

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Thank you